My Why

Sometimes inspiration strikes in the most unexpected, and often inconvenient, moments. Take, for example, tonight…it’s at the end of a long day of food preservation and meal preparation, and I’m supervising shower time for the kids when, out of nowhere, a lightbulb turns on. An idea for a new post clicks, when I wasn’t even thinking about the blog. But, one kid can’t get all the shampoo out of her hair, while the other has no idea where his pajamas are (how many times do I have to organize the dresser drawers?!), so writing gets pushed to the back burner. However, that niggling idea just won’t go away, so I’m now up late getting it all out.

More often than not I get the impression that people think we’re nuts for pursuing this lifestyle. Why would we ever want to grow our own food or raise our children in the country? Why go to all that “hard work” when the grocery store and suburbia have everything you need? To answer the first part of that question, please see my last post!

Basically, it all boils down to “my why”. You know the question that you’re asked when starting a new venture, whether it’s losing weight or starting a new job. What is your motivation for doing what you do? Your why…so here is my why.

I love that one recent afternoon my nine-year old chose learning to bale hay over swimming with friends because he “wanted to learn how to do it”. He probably won’t make that mistake again. Also, unrelated, he’d love for someone to invent a milk-cow kegerator equivalent, despite my protestations about the manure involved, and given his fondness for all things dairy, we’re going to need to invest in that sooner, rather than later.

I love that my six-year old picks and eats sugar snap peas and green beans while standing in the garden or freshly shucked sweet corn in the field.

I love that my nine-year old knows that on Monday nights we watch “Antiques Roadshow”, and he’ll remind us that it’s Monday, so we don’t forget to tune in. Plus, he watches the hour-long program intently and suggests which things my mom should take when she goes on the show some day.

I love that my six-year old absolutely smothers the kittens in the shed with all the love she possesses, from the time she wakes up to the time I tell her to call it a night. If anyone is living her best life right now, it’s my daughter!

I love that my nine-year old diligently counts the chickens and un-locks or locks the coop each morning and night. He’s also claimed the job of egg collector once they start laying.

I love that my six-year old volunteers to pick the basil so that I can turn it into pesto and checks the pie pumpkins and apples daily for any sign of ripeness. “They’re starting to turn orange Mama!”

These may be just a few of the reasons for choosing this lifestyle, but in my mind they’re huge. Showing our children that there’s more to life than video games, social media and pop culture is imperative. Teaching them to slow down and appreciate a simpler way of life is monumental. Helping them recognize the important things in life is absolutely crucial, and helps to remind us to slow down and take a closer look. So now, if you’ll excuse me, I have a full moon and some stars to watch.

The Price of Pork Bellies

As a kid growing up on a farm in central Illinois, I remember my father tuning in to WGN radio’s noon show with Orion Samuelson and Max Armstrong at lunchtime most days. He’d listen intently as the announcers read off the list of various commodity prices for the day, which inevitably included pork bellies. Now, as a kid of 9 or 10 years old I could only surmise what the heck a pork belly was and really, if I’m being honest, even as an adult I may not completely understand the business of trading pork belly futures.

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However, as our country and really, the world, faces the global pandemic that is affecting all of us, chinks in the global food system have been exposed. Questions like “is our food system broken?” have arisen. Articles like this from Homesteaders of America and this from the New York Times make one wonder if sourcing food closer to home might be the way more people are headed.

Like many homesteaders, or homesteader wannabes, we’ve been thinking about what we can do to minimize our reliance on the global food system. A garden large enough to sustain us throughout the non-growing season has always been one of our goals, and I look forward to explaining what we’re doing about that in a future post.

But something else we’re interested in doing is raising our own meat or, since we aren’t actually on the farm yet, sourcing it locally. As Covid-19 shut down meat processing plants across the country, many producers were at a loss with what to do with their products that would typically be funneled through grocery stores. Through Facebook groups such as Farm Surplus 2 Table and word-of-mouth, many of these producers have been able to connect directly with the consumer, thereby not losing their entire profit or potentially having to destroy their flocks, herds and crops.

By partnering with a local hog producer and meat locker that, fortunately, still had processing slots available, we have been blessed to secure enough pork that will get us through the foreseeable future. Some day, hopefully not long from now, we plan to raise our own hogs and process them, as well, but for now we’re excited to have this opportunity.

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In the meantime, we’ll continue to dream and think about the future when we’ll know where all of our bacon (and other food, but most importantly, bacon) comes from.

A Strawberry by Any Other Name

The time has finally come for us to move forward with plans! It’s been a minute since I’ve written anything, but I have many posts in mind that I’m excited to share, and this one is a long time coming.

Back in Korea, there is a season solely dedicated to strawberries. Other countries have similar produce seasons such as “Spargelzeit” or “asparagus time” in Germany. It’s a season that’s highly anticipated and during which many restaurant dishes and markets highlight whatever the seasonal ingredient is. Does the US have this? Have I just been missing out? If so, please clue me in! I know, I digress. Squirrel!

So, strawberry season in Korea is a big deal. They’re everywhere, and the presentation is half of the appeal. The packages we would purchase contained 12 perfect, enormous strawberries, situated in parallel rows in protective styrofoam containers. Unfortunately, the presentation often reflected the price we could expect to pay, so strawberries in Korea were a treat…as evidenced in these pictures from when the kids were much younger, sigh.

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Fast forward to being back stateside…two years ago the kids and I picked a couple of buckets of strawberries at a local U-pick farm and turned them into jam. Those 15 or so jars lasted us two years since, apparently, we don’t eat a lot of jam, or the kids didn’t realize just how darn good that stuff was. So, last fall when I saw that the same strawberry farm was looking for volunteers to plant the next year’s crop, in exchange for strawberries this spring, I jumped at the chance. For four hours one day I kneeled, bent over, crawled, was rained on, dug in and got dirty, all in anticipation of “free” strawberries this spring. I might have not been able to walk upright for the next couple of days, but by doggone it, I was going to get those strawberries!

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This weekend that dream was realized. Although the current global situation is prohibiting the U-pick operations, drive through strawberry-ing (yes, that’s a word) happened. From those three, five pound buckets and a whole mess of lemons we managed to make five pints of strawberry-lemonade concentrate, 19 half pints of strawberry jam and some absolutely delicious (if I do say so myself) gluten- and dairy-free strawberry shortcake.

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Hopefully these jars will last us until we can find a new strawberry patch…or at least until we can plant our own.

Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder

It’s difficult to process that it’s been more than a year since I wrote a blog post. I’d like to say that we spent the better part of that year honing our homesteading skills, but that would be more or less a lie. Don’t get me wrong…I pickled some jalapeños and made strawberry jam from some delicious Korean strawberries, continued homeschooling, made plenty of laundry detergent, deodorant and pizza crust, but that’s about it. Better to say we were overcome by events during the last year, which was quite a doozy.

It started out simply enough with a busy fall, progressed quickly through the holidays, practically skipped spring, sent us sprawling into summer, through another fall complete with a move back to the States (a tale for another time), the latest holidays and a brand new year. There were several family trips within Korea and one, with just the kids and me, back to the States in late January ’17. However, our trip last summer involved all of us and culminated when we said goodbye to my father. The man who helped shape the person I am today succumbed to his battle with COPD seven months ago.

Dad was a dreamer. He could see the beauty in things that most of us find ordinary. His art and photography helped us see what was in his “mind’s eye” and enriched our everyday lives. It was a great tribute when, at his visitation and service, myriad people mentioned that they had one (or more) of his drawings or photographs hanging on the walls of their homes. And “magic time” will forever remind me to watch for that beauty and ensure others appreciate it too.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dad was a conservationist. He believed in taking care of the Earth even if that meant working a little harder or taking a little longer. He wanted nothing more than to leave the world a better place than he found it, and he never wanted to take up more space than necessary. He used to tell my mom, “when I die, have me cremated, and pour me down a fence post hole.” And although we couldn’t quite bring ourselves to do just that, I think he’d approve of our alternative.

Dad was the original upcycler. He never met a piece of “inventory” that he didn’t like, and he probably had a plan for most of it or would eventually. I suppose I’m like that to an extent too, although my “inventory” consists mostly of fabric and sewing notions. How appropriate it is that I have ideas for a bit of his inventory when we finally begin construction at our own little slice of heaven.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dad was also the original Google. You could ask him the forecast for the next week, the best time of year to visit Glacier, how much a bushel of corn was going for at the river, etc. and he’d rattle off the answers before you even had a chance to finish the questions. He read and researched, and I loved getting links to articles about sustainable agriculture, growing lavender, and different types of alternative energy sources or funny puns and jokes. With the time difference, I inevitably had a new Facebook message when I woke up in the morning. I sure do miss starting the day that way!

Dad touched many lives throughout his years, and there isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t think of him and miss him. We were blessed to have him while we did, and I hope he’s watching over us now.  So until we see each other again, I’ll just say good night, love ya, see ya in the morning Dad.

Self-sufficiency 101 – Deodorant

Now that our fall schedule is in full swing (i.e. home school, business events, fall sports, teaching classes and increased chapel activities), there’s little time left for some of the more leisurely activities like sleeping blogging. However, after a fun, full day of aforementioned chapel activities, My laptop and I are enjoying a cold Corona and the sunset on our patio, as the day finally cools off after fall gave way to summer temps one last time (hopefully!). Also, if you’re wondering how home school is going, there will be a post on that soon…no really, I promise! Of course, there are still meals to cook, laundry to wash, dry and fold, dirty floors and toilets to scrub, etc. and since we’re constantly working towards accomplishing some of our implied tasks from previous posts, what better time than the present to introduce the next series of posts…Self-sufficiency 101.

First up on our implied tasks list is reducing the number and changing the type of beauty products that we purchase. Eventually I plan to make our soaps, shampoos, conditioners, lotions, lip balms, etc., but I’ve been making my own deodorant since we moved here 13 months ago. There are many recipes available online and in books, but I’ve stuck with this one from Frugally Sustainable. It’s versatile in that I can change the essential oils based on my mood or for whom I’m making it, and I can add more probiotics if the season (or person in question) calls for it. I especially love that my once doubting Thomas husband has admitted that it works just as well, if not better, than any commercially-made (both “natural” and not) product he’s tried. High praise from him! Plus, as long as I have the ingredients on hand, which I usually do, it takes less time to make it than it does to run down to the store and buy some chemically-laden brand. Not to mention, once we have our own bees I’ll be buying even fewer ingredients. Win-win!

So, rather than publish a long, drawn-out post, enjoy this abridged picture collage of the steps of making your own deodorant.deodorant

I bought my deodorant containers here, but they’re available from many different places (here and here). This time around I made myself a summery deodorant using lemon, orange and grapefruit oils, and the hubs’ deodorant was a more manly scent of bergamot, but I’ve also used lavender and tea tree oil. Next up will be a lovely combination of orange, clove, cinnamon and nutmeg. After all, it’s almost one of my favorite times of year…pumpkin-spice season! If you give this recipe a shot, let me know what you think. Also, let me know what you’d like to read about next. Homemade sandwich bread? Laundry detergent? Household cleaners made from household ingredients? Leave me a comment below!

For the Love of Books – Building a Homesteading Library

“I can never read all the books I want; I can never be all the people I want and live all the lives I want. I can never train myself in all the skills I want. And why do I want? I want to live and feel all the shades, tones and variations of mental and physical experience possible in my life. And I am horribly limited.”
– Sylvia Plath, The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath

Living in a foreign country, although usually fun and exciting, has its challenges. Among them is finding daily “necessities” that we take for granted in the United States…like cinnamon Trident. Something seemingly small and ridiculous, but it’s the only kind of gum I like. As a result, I’ve turned to Amazon to order gum, the toothpaste and soap we like, Thor wigs, etc. And because of the company’s genius marketing strategy and perhaps a little peer pressure (“customers who bought this item also bought…”), before I know it I’ve often clicked through enough pages to make Kevin Bacon envious. So, when I started researching educational homesteading books, that peer pressure led to a million choices for books that we MUST have.

The first book I purchased, even before we started looking at land, was Mastering Artisan Cheesemaking: The Ultimate Guide for Home-Scale and Market Producers by Gianaclis Caldwell. The original goal was to begin making our own mozzarella for our Friday homemade pizza & movie nights, but as I peruse the pages of this gorgeous book, I envision aged cheddars and silky bries becoming staples in our home. After all, who doesn’t like cheese? As a result, I’ve added “how to create a cheese cave” to our ever-growing list of tasks to learn.

The next three books I purchased after playing “Six Degrees of Amazon”. The Encyclopedia of Country Living by Carla Emery is a wealth of information, and I look forward to using it as a reference book throughout the years. Little House Living by Merissa A. Alink features beautiful pictures from her homestead and is already one of my favorites. In it the author has recipes for DIY beauty products, pet care, cleaning products, fun things for kids and and delicious food. Stay tuned for posts about what we’ve made so far. Lastly, The Homesteading Handbook by Abigail R. Gehring looks to be very informative, and I’m excited to start reading it.

The Ruth Stout No-Work Garden Book by Ruth Stout and Richard Clemence (copyright 1971) is part educational book, part autobiography. Mrs. Stout is smart, inspiring and sassy, and I want to be just like her. She was ahead of her time with her “radical” gardening method. Check out this short video for a glimpse into her method and life. The book can be difficult to find, but I highly recommend making the effort to locate it if you’re at all interested in making your gardening easier. We’ll definitely be implementing her deep mulch method on the farm.

The Small-Scale Poultry Flock by Harvey Ussery is reputed to be the chicken Bible, and once I’ve cleared out every other book that’s in-progress, I’ll be sure to post a review of it.

Ebooks like Homesteading for Beginners by Imogen Alix, Homesteading for Beginners by Micheal Cook, Backyard Farming by Sanford Evans and Year of Plenty by Craig L. Goodwin (thank you for the recommendation Steve!) are also gracing my Kindle. The first two are proving difficult to get into, Year of Plenty is entertaining so far, and I’m looking forward to starting Backyard Farming.

Luckily, our local library on post also has several books that I’m gradually adding to the list to read, and the inter-library loan program offers many more throughout South Korea. If you’re a budding homesteader or just like to keep your mind sharp and educate yourself, what would you recommend reading? You never know when a friend might advocate a particular work that becomes a new personal favorite, so let’s hear those suggestions!

Planning A Revolution….Lifestyle Revolution, That Is

Now that we have our land and our lists of homesteading projects to research, what do we do for the next year? Sit around and twiddle our thumbs? If you know us at all, you know that will never happen. Planning, networking and education will be the cornerstones of making this dream a reality, and, luckily, there is no shortage of educational webinars, books, websites and other blogs available. So why do we call it a revolution? Simply stated, our main goal with purchasing this land is to be as self-sustaining and -sufficient as possible. Does that mean we’ll trade in our vehicles for a horse and buggy or shun electricity and start wearing bonnets? Will we become beard-wearing mountain men clad only in flannel or “long-haired freaky people” who don’t shave anything? Probably not, but much as I was explaining headings and subheadings to our son (because what five year old shouldn’t learn about bullet journaling), there are myriad implied tasks associated with that goal. Here are our top five categories.

#1-Live Off the Grid

This phrase is often associated with those long-haired freaky people and mountain men I mentioned above and used as a means of staying off the government’s radar. However, we’re law-abiding, tax-paying citizens who simply wish to reduce our carbon footprint and save some money in the process. We plan to dig a well and/or try to locate an underground spring. We’re exploring alternative energy sources such as geothermal, solar and wind, as well as considering building a double envelope house. I doubt we’ll go so far as to give up our cell phones, internet and access to modern medicine, and we promise to maintain our personal hygiene and contact with society, but every little bit counts. So, if you know anyone who has employed any of these off-grid ideas or others on their own land, we’d love to connect with them!

#2-Purchase Fewer Consumer Goods

A small garden, clothesline and sun tea…all in our backyard in Korea.

Every year retail stores stock holiday, particularly Christmas, decorations earlier and earlier. There’s no doubt that we live in a consumer-driven society, but that doesn’t mean we have to succumb to the materialistic mentality that plagues our nation. One of my favorite things about this goal is that you don’t have to be a homesteader to accomplish it. You could live in the heart of New York City, near the vineyards of California or anywhere in between and make your own soap, sew your own clothes and build your own furniture. And even on the other side of the world, we have begun cutting out some of the daily “necessities” and experimenting with homemade recipes. Future posts will demonstrate our transition, so stay tuned!


#3-Grow/Hunt/Forage Our Own Food

Next on our list, and probably my favorite topic, is food.  Some people eat to live; I live to eat. Growing up in the country had many benefits, including, but not limited to learning gardening and canning and developing an excellent work ethic. As a child, I spent as much time in the kitchen as I did outside, and I vividly remember Mom’s successes and not-quite successes with fondness….delicious meals and canned goods year-round, spaghetti sauce on the kitchen ceiling, snapping green beans, pitting cherries and shelling peas, etc. So what’s our COA, or course of action, for you non-military types? Grow a HUGE garden, plant an orchard, berry bushes and vineyard, raise chickens for eggs and meat, milk and beef cows, dairy goats, pigs and bees, explore the world of aquaponics, locate existing and plant additional maple trees for syrup, forage for wild plants, hunt deer and turkeys, build a (possibly geothermal) greenhouse for year-round produce and a root cellar/storage area for food storage, plus process it all ourselves….just to name a few ideas.

#4-Homeschool

This is a fluid goal and will continue to evolve. We’ll be starting with Kindergarten for our son this fall and following what looks to be an educational and entertaining curriculum. More on this soon! I feel like there couldn’t be a better place for children to learn than on a homestead, but time will tell how this goal pans out.

#5-Make the Farm Our Job

How precisely do we begin to afford all of this? Well, we fully anticipate having jobs “outside” the farm, at least in the beginning. However, as our primary goal is to be self-sustaining, we’re considering raising a couple of specialty crops as our main bread & butter and planting a large orchard where we could offer U-Pick opportunities. We’ll likely also sell some of our garden surplus, honey, home-canned and baked items at farmers’ markets, participate in a bee pollination program (CRP) through the Extension Service for tillable acreage that isn’t in production, bring the family peanut brittle business out of retirement, manage selective logging of the timber, establish a CSA, apply for hobby farm/new farmers’ and Veterans’ farming grants, and I’ll continue to sew, embroider and quilt to my heart’s desire.

We know that our goals are lofty. We know it’s going to be a lot of hard work, but Grandpa always said there is no other kind. We know that there are going to be days when we’ll probably want to quit. We also know that it’ll be worth it, our ever-evolving goals will be realized and we will eventually lead the simpler and sustainable life that we crave. So when will you start your own revolution?

I ♥ Lists

Have you ever had to organize an enormous or extravagant event or, perhaps, plan to move your family across the country? Have you ever written list after list, then made lists of those lists? Or lay in bed at 2 am, obsessing over said lists and willing your brain to shut off? Yeah, neither have I. But if I were that type of person, my current to-do list might look something like this.

1. Decide what type of land we want/need, then research what’s available in the area where we’d like to live.
2. Buy land.

3. Research permaculture, best types of milk and beef cows for small farms, how to milk said cows and what to then do with all the milk, wraparound porches, alternative energy sources, hardneck vs. softneck garlic, how to incubate and candle chicken eggs, geothermal greenhouses, basic animal husbandry, canning recipes and methods, living off the grid, maple trees and sugaring, prefab barn companies, goat playgrounds, growing and drying lavender, local farmers’ markets, Varroa mites, foulbrood, wax moths and Colony Collapse Disorder, best types of apple, cherry, pear (and maybe peach?) trees for central Illinois and how to plant them, cheesemaking, double envelope homes, deep mulch gardening, pasturing hogs, root cellar plans, companion planting, removing spurs from roosters, treehouse plans, small farm and veterans’ grants, architectural salvage stores, cottage laws, soap making, alternate income sources and “off-season” jobs, DIY chicken pluckers, wild food foraging, Flow vs Langstroth vs Warre hives, “natural” pest and weed prevention using essential oils and herbs, classes through the Extension service, grape vines, berry bushes and strawberries, fencing techniques, homemade kombucha, apple cider vinegar and fermented foods, organic certification, aquaponics, growing mushrooms, composting, raw milk laws, heirloom fruits and veggies, curing meat, growing cereal grains, etc., etc., etc……

4. Sit back, drink some more coffee and wonder what we’re getting ourselves into, because, naturally, we must do ALL the things.
5. Make another list of realistic goals.
6. Realize what a blessing this journey already is and embrace it entirely.

Maybe I just need a spreadsheet for my lists….

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Ch, ch, ch, changes….

Change is inevitable “they” say, and as an Army family, we’re experts at dealing with change. We pack up our entire lives; people, pets, belongings, careers, at a moment’s notice and move across the country or to the other side of the world, often without knowing where we’ll live when we get there, if we’ll make new friends and sometimes even the native language. There’s a popular meme that says military children will say goodbye to more significant people by the time they’re 18 than the average person will in his or her entire lifetime. Whether or not these experiences make us better people, I don’t know, but I do know that we roll with the punches better than most, and we learn to adapt to whatever the Army throws at us.

Now, as the government draws down the Army, more changes are on the horizon for many Army families. There comes a time when you start to question whether or not your family will be able to rely on the promises made to your Soldier, almost two decades ago, at the end of his or her service. You explore your options and start to dream and plan for the future. You think about your childhood, the life you want for your children and how to set everyone up for success. And sometimes, those dreams become reality.

When my father-in-law passed away in January and we returned to the States for the services, I suppose we were looking for a sliver. A sliver of hope that would prevent us from being apart from our families any longer, especially during times as trying as the ones with which we were then presented. We had discussed what we might do “after the Army,” but it seemed so far away that it was more of a dream than a reality. However, circumstances such as those make you question your own mortality and future. So we began researching and considering. And we found a solution that was part timber, part tillable property. It had been in CRP for five years already, so it was ideal for establishing an organic farm. We toured it…twice within two weeks. We headed back to Korea, made an offer and we were outbid. And although we were disappointed, we weren’t discouraged. We simply took a break from researching. Then we found it. THE. PERFECT. PROPERTY. The first place had set the bar pretty high, but this one more than met it. However, since we were back in Korea, we couldn’t see it firsthand. Naturally, we did the next rational thing. We sent my mom and dad to check it out. They provided feedback, and we ran with it.

It’s been six months since we started looking and only two since we started considering this property, but these 43 acres are officially our blank canvas for painting our next chapter. We have a million ideas of what we’ll do with the property, at least 14 months before we leave Korea and only God knows how long before we truly go from boots to barns.

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